March 24, 2015

Social Media: The Never Ending Argument

"Kerri, you don't know when to stop!"

If I had a rabbit for every time my parents said that to me during my childhood, I'd have an entire nation of rabbits. Because I didn't know when to stop. And I'm still not sure when to stop. When it comes to arguments, or opinions, or ideas that I hold passionately, I can go on and on and on like the proverbial bull at a gate. (Who, presumably, would stampede over those rabbits, but that's just mixing metaphors.) I feel an intense need to convince others of my opinion. and if I can't actually convert them to my way of thinking, then at least have them acknowledge that my point of view is valid.

Before social media there was a natural limit to my arguments. I only had contact with a certain number of people every day and there were only a certain number of topics we would discuss.

But Twitter and Facebook and blogs have changed all that. They offer me an endless number of potential subjects to debate, and an infinite pool of people with whom to debate them. I could, quite literally, spend all day every day on social media arguing. And I have spent hours and hours doing so.


Strangely, however, it's actually had a paradoxical effect. It has started to teach me when to stop. Because there is no organic end to arguments on social media. You can finish with one person and have ten more waiting in the wings to take up the challenge. You can write a tweet or Facebook post or blog about an issue and be inundated with responses from people itching for a fight. It never ends. It never ends unless you put a stop to it.

So I am learning to do so. I am learning when to say Enough. I am learning how to let things go, how to accept that there will always be people who think differently to me, how to maintain inner peace in the face of heated opposition.

But it will always be a challenge. I will always be a person of opinions. And I suspect I still have a few more rabbits to collect along the way.

6 comments:

  1. Lana (Sharpest Pencil)March 24, 2015 at 10:01 AM

    I wish you could draw comments because then I would draw a bunny xxxx

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  2. I think you're opinions have hit more than a few nerves for the response to such a light hearted piece of writing to be so vicious!
    Hmmm seem to have ruffled some over sensitive feathers in thermieland.

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  3. The main reason I quit Twitter. It's now unsocial media.

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  4. Stealth husband with laundry spotted! Appliances? Take up space.

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  5. I also have a severe case of this affliction - why can't everyone just have the same point of view as me - well that wouldn't suit either because who would I argue with or try to convert - rabbits rabbits rabbits

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