tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post126535356090819514..comments2023-10-08T22:15:45.041+11:00Comments on Life & Other Crises: Stop Policing Women's Sexual FantasiesKerri Sackvillehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404421856986720832noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post-79633488446420273992015-02-25T07:14:50.174+11:002015-02-25T07:14:50.174+11:00Yes. Finally a post about 50 Shades that I can agr...Yes. Finally a post about 50 Shades that I can agree with!rhonda hartmanhttp://twitter.com/rhondamhartmannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post-38591025681650589882015-02-17T23:28:34.044+11:002015-02-17T23:28:34.044+11:00I agree with this. I've read erotica that is a...I agree with this. I've read erotica that is arousing while you're also aware the same situation in real life would fill you with disgust or fear. Hence the fantasy!Jackie K @ Working Through Itnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post-8366107742321428142015-02-17T13:33:50.257+11:002015-02-17T13:33:50.257+11:00I agree that what turns you on turns you on. I rea...I agree that what turns you on turns you on. I read ( well written) erotica Of all kinds and am in no way ashamed.<br /><br />But my understanding is that the complaints about domestic violence in no way concern the sex. Most people know that sex games, domination etc between consenting adults is not abuse. What is abuse is that outside the bedroom the Grey character is abusive and controlling and that is the problem. People can get off on the sex all they want but if they think a BDSM relationship should be taken to mean the master in the bedroom can then also control every aspect of the other person's life Outside the bedroom, then that is, in my opinion, dangerous. I keep telling people there is such well written BDSM fiction out there that far better portrays what these relationships truly entail. Dominance in the bedroom, not outside it.Kellie Warnernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post-87715528005413085972015-02-16T22:44:23.355+11:002015-02-16T22:44:23.355+11:00Smartest words I've read on the topic yet! Cou...Smartest words I've read on the topic yet! Could not agree with you more!Nardiahttp://www.alifelikeours.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8774807226689612975.post-3336296168416342992015-02-16T21:17:48.427+11:002015-02-16T21:17:48.427+11:00Thank you for a reality check. This over-reaction ...Thank you for a reality check. This over-reaction to fantasy will dilute the issues we really need to stand against.louisanoreply@blogger.com